You know when you’re so busy that a day flies by, leaving you with a where-has-this-day-gone moment of surprise? If you’re not careful, your days, months, and years could fly by, and you could wake up someday with a where-has-my-LIFE-gone moment of surprise too. You don’t want to be left with this scary moment of regret for time well wasted. Thankfully, you can avoid this and find fulfillment by becoming more conscious!
You know what career you’re in – you’re a nurse, lawyer, consultant, coach, designer, accountant, etc. But do you know why you’re doing it? In the next few minutes, you will become conscious of your career path, avoiding that where-has-my-life-gone moment. You will come to terms with why you’re here, how you feel today, and where you’re going.
Get out a pen or your notes app, you’re going to write. Seriously…do it.
First, think about why you started the job you’re in. Maybe you took this job out of college or switched to it from a previous role. Did you do it because you thought you would be good at the job? Is it because someone told you to do it? Or maybe because it offered you the most money? Is it because you wanted to help people? Or it sounded fun? Was it the only job offer you had? Did you follow a friend or sibling?
Step 1 Be honest with yourself. Write this down: “I took this job because…” Then write a couple sentences with your explanation for why you took the job you have. What were you thinking at the time?
Let’s think about how you feel at work now. Do you feel that you’re a stud at your role, or just average? Can you feel yourself getting better and learning new skills? Did you wake up today feeling motivated for work? How many days per week do you feel frustrated when you leave work? How do you feel when you have to tell others what you do at work? Do work parties make you excited or annoyed? When was the last time you were in a state of flow at work? Do you think you’re being fairly compensated for the value you provide to the company?
Step 2 Write this down: “I currently feel this about my job…” Then write down your answers to the questions above. For example, “I currently feel this about my job…
I am already a stud in my role. I am not learning new skills. I feel frustrated most days when I leave work…” Seriously, write it all down.
Now, imagine the next 3 years in this job. Do you want more responsibility? Can you see yourself taking your manager’s role? Do you think you’ll get paid what you want? Are you interested in other positions at the company? Do you think your company will do well? Would the company lay you off in hard times?
Step 3 Write this down: “In the next few years…” Then write your answers to the above questions.
Now you’ve become more conscious of your career path. Maybe you realized that you’re really happy where you are. Maybe you realized you’re good but should look into changing soon. Or you realized you need a change right now! If you don’t have a conclusion yet, that’s ok too. Just keep checking in with yourself and remain conscious of why you got here, how you feel today, and where you’re going.
Being conscious will prevent you from waking up someday and saying why am I even doing this? Where has my time gone?
Always know why you’re doing what you’re doing.